Thursday 6 June 2013

I'm too ashamed to tell him...Kindly advise.

Is 15 sex partners 2 many 4 a 22years old?I had always planned 2 remain virgin till I got married.l tried to stick 2 dis plan bt at d age of 22 I lost my virginity& I absolutely loved it.its 4years later now& I have slept with more than 15men. I'm currently in a relationship dat I'm hoping would lead to marriage.D oda day my partner asked me how many men I'd been with b4 him I said 5 I was 2 ashamed.

Kindly advise.

1 comment:

  1. For you to ask this question, it shows that you are ashamed. To be honest, it's nothing to be proud of. It doesn't show self-worth/dignity. Perhaps you were ignorant when you engaged in it. I will advise you to tell you to tell your current boyfriend about it all. You don't want to build your relationship on lies. What if he finds out? It's better for you to tell him. Perhaps you are ashamed to tell him or you think he may reject you, you won't know until you tell him the whole truth.
    Other comments are welcome. I'm aware of some ladies that have said that, what happened in the past relationship should stay in the past, the current partner does not need to know.